1. Be Honest. (You need to be honest with your partner. Honesty is really important in all aspects. Pag wala ito, then don't expect na mag go-grow yung relasyon ninyo. Choose to be honest rather than lying. Di naman mahirap yun.)
2. Be Real. (If your partner really loves you, kahit ano kapa at sino kapa at kung ano pa yung mga nakaraan mo, tatanggapin ka nyan. Being real will help you bring the best in you. Wag kang mag hesitate na magpakatotoo sa partner mo. Let him/her know and see the real you. Deserve din ng partner mo yun.)
3. Be Open. (Learn to be open with your partner sa kahit anong aspeto. Mapa feelings man yan, mga iniisip mo, mga plano sa buhay and all, always choose to be open. Para aware siya at alam niya kung anong tumatakbo sa isipan mo.)
4. Be Faithful. (Eto yung kadalasan na hindi na-aapply ng isang relasyon. You may be loyal but not faithful. Pwedeng sya lang yung jowa mo pero may ka $3× ka palang iba. Nag chicheat ka pala. Dun palang, wala kanang silbi sa relasyon.)
5. Always learn to accept your indifferences. (This one is really important. You should know na yung partner mo eh hindi sa lahat ng pagkakataon ay magkapareho kayo. May mga bagay talaga na nangyayari wherein di kayo on the same spot. And dun palang, you need to respect that. Respect his/her indifferences.)
6. Learn to talk the things that you both need to improve. (Kung napapansin mong may mga bagay sa partner mo na need ng improvement, pag usapan ninyo. Maging open kayo sa isa't isa and make a deal to improve it. Kasi dun ninyo makukuha ang pagiging better sa isa't isa at sa mga sarili ninyo.)
7. Be Understanding. (You should always know na hindi sa lahat ng pagkakataon, sayo umiikot yung oras at atensyon ng partner mo. You need to accept the fact na they also need time with their self, time with their family and friends. You need to understand that personal space still matters.)
8. Learn to trust. (This one is also crucial. Dapat pag pumasok ka sa isang relasyon, handa kang magtiwala at pagkatiwalaan ang partner mo. If you've been into previous relationship wherein you got cheated, give time for yourself muna to heal. Mahalin mo muna ang sarili mo at matuto ka ulit magtiwala sa sarili mo bago ka magtiwala sa iba. Pag na achieve mo yun, then I tell you, di na mahirap para sayo ang pagkatiwalaan yung partner mo.)
9. Build dreams and goals together. (Always make sure na may dreams and goals kayo together. Plan those things and put action to it para tulungan kayong dalawa to be successful.)
10. PUT GOD AS THE CENTER OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP. (This is the most important thing that y'all need to do and to apply. Wag na wag ninyong kakalimutan na pag may God sa center ng relationship ninyo, then everything will fall at its right place.)
And the list goes on. Dagdag nalang kayo pag meron pang hindi na mention dito
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